Sunday, February 28, 2010

Random thoughts about singleness

Reasons for me to love being single right now...
1. I get to travel wherever and whenever I want! I find a babysitter for Sully and I'm off!
2. I have plenty of Courtney time to do stuff for Courtney :)
3. I am discovering who God wants me to be with Him and without many other distractions. I have learned so much from my alone time with Him and while I can't wait to grow with someone else, I am really enjoying growing to love Courtney for who God wants me to grow to be.
4. I have learned how to do man jobs around the house... because well there is no man to do them. I can fix things and use power tools. Often times I would do more but it makes Nicole nervous considering it's not our house I'm fixing haha.
5. I can go home and see my family without having to submit someone else to my mother's crazy and hilarious questions. Don't worry there is plenty of time for someone else to experience that at a later point in my life.
6. My room can be disastrous (not saying it is but it could be) without having to feel guilty about it.
7. Sully doesn't have to be jealous of another man in my life. He really doesn't like people hugging without him!

While these are some of the reasons (mostly selfish) that I can be grateful that I am still single they are not all of the reasons I'm sure. While I feel that I am ready to start thinking about settleling down and looking for that special man of God that He is preparing for me obviously that choice is not up to me and I have to be patient and trust that in His perfect timing that God will bring him into my life. Until that time I enjoy my time being single and taking lots and lots of me time while I have it! I appreciate prayers for patience and trust :)

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